Introductory Offer: To celebrate our launch, enjoy 40% off connection fees on mutual acceptances before Jan 1st, 2026!

Bringing cultural values and meaningful relationships together

Finding love when you’re juggling two worlds isn’t easy, but that’s exactly why ABCD Together is here. We get what it means to be an American-Desi: rooted in culture, living an American life, and ready to find someone who gets it all.

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You Deserve More Than Just Swipes

Why You’ll Love ABCD Together?

  • One Match, One Focus: We do the searching, you do the choosing. Receive one compatible match at a time, so you can spend your energy on real connections.
  • Culturally Aligned Matches: Whether you’re deeply rooted in desi traditions or blending cultures your own way, meet people who truly understand your identity.
  • Thoughtful Compatibility: Every match is guided by a detailed compatibility score, reflecting your values, personality, and lifestyle so you meet people who truly align with you.
  • Your Dealbreakers Respected: Age and height are built-in non-negotiables, and any dealbreaker preferences you set will be matched exactly nothing less, nothing more. Your match will always fit within your must-haves.
  • Simple and Transparent: Creating a profile is free. You only pay a connection fee per match when both members agree to move forward. This ensures every match is intentional.
  • Safe & Trusted: Every profile goes through identity verification and a manual review, so you can connect with confidence. Your profile is private and never publicly searchable.

How It Works

  • Join & Verify Create your free profile and complete a quick identity check through a secure email link. Once verified and reviewed, you’re ready for matches.
  • Get Matched Our system carefully calculates compatibility considering your values, lifestyle, and personality traits to introduce you to one meaningful match at a time.
  • Decision Window You’ll have 7 days to accept or decline each match. This timeline is designed so no one is left waiting indefinitely for the other person to respond.
  • Connect If both members say yes, contact details are shared and no new matches will be shown. We take the back step and leave it to you to take things forward. If things don’t work out, simply email us to reactivate your profile.